Being faithful in a relationship...do you really want to?

Life is full of beautiful temptations and it is natural enough that the human mind tends to get attracted towards the taboo. Everyone has their own Achilles heel and some might succumb to the enticement while others overcome it. Statistics have revealed that most divorces and break-ups happen because of infidelity by one or both the partners and the ironic fact is that most times the affair turns out to be nothing. So, in the long run, one ends up losing a laboriously built relationship to satisfy a moment’s fancy. And when one realizes the futility of the venture, it becomes too late to do anything about it.

No one can assure that they are immune to the lure of the forbidden and will never stray in their lifetime. But what one can do is use the power of their own judgment to prevent any mishaps from happening. Just like precautions can save accidents, being prepared and aware can help you to remain faithful and save your relationship as well. There might be some genuine problems inside the marriage or liaison due to which it ended; but if it was a happy union and you had nothing but only your wayward nature to blame for the break-up; then you will be happy to have some words of advice before hand. Here are some handy ways to help you to remain faithful and loyal in your relationship.

The truth behind infidelity

Faith and trust are such delicate pillars in a relationship that once one of these is infested, the entire foundation collapses. It is extremely easy to go down the forbidden path; after all, we have always been warned about the temptation of the taboo. All of us, at some point of time have faced the lure of the illicit but the choices and decisions we make at that point of time determine the consequences in our future. Some give in and some turn away, there is no right or wrong in any of these choices, what is right or wrong is the impact or the consequences of our choices.

There is no one who can guarantee to be loyal and faithful to their spouses or partners, but what one can do, is to promise oneself that they will try their best to stay away from temptation. But, when one knowingly or reluctantly makes the choice to be unfaithful, they most often don’t pay much attention to the consequences of their actions. The thrill of a momentary fling can bring a lifetime of unhappiness to a person but the haze of the attraction towards the forbidden is so strong that such awareness can hardly be expected.   

Jealous Much? Tips to deal with jealousy

A romantic relationship brings in a lot of beautiful, enchanting moments and happy memories. But along with all the nice things, it also heralds innumerable complications and concerns, jealousy being just one of them. Jealousy might develop as a small seed of mistrust; which can then blow out of proportion and destroy the foundation of a lovingly built, once-happy relationship.

This “green eyed monster” can sprout out with some base to reality or might be just a feeling that develops without a base, owing to some inner, deeply rooted psychological concern. Psychologists have accredited the cause of jealousy to many factors, ranging from insecurity, lack of confidence in self, to a feeling or sense of threat to self. The feeling is quite normal when it is limited to a mild possessiveness; however this mild “normal” emotion might soon turn into chronic emotional instability. Sometimes jealousies are based on the treatment one receives from one’s partner. Constant rebuffs, lack of attention and interest, alignment towards other members of the sex might all be a factor which leads to jealousy. Whatever the source, the end result is always detrimental to the couple and their relationship. It is very important to understand where the feeling of jealousy has steeped from and also to nip it at the bud in order to avoid further damage. Here are some ways to avoid or repair the dents put into a relationship by the ill-effect of jealousy.

6 ways to be Charming and Romantic

The two most important things that a man needs in order to impress a woman are his charm and attitude. Yes, it might seem strange but good looks actually take a back seat when a woman is looking for a partner. His values and behavior are what will take a guy ahead in a romantic relationship. And once you win over your lady love, there is no reason to lose your charm and romantic allure with her. Just because she has been enamored does not mean that she does not deserve your gallantry and romantic gestures anymore.

10 effective ways to get rid of a girlfriend

A woman can provide you with the best companionship and be the best life partner you always dreamt of. On the other hand, a girl can also be the complete opposite and prove to be a combination of disaster and doom in one single package, leaving no option but to get rid of her as soon as possible. But it is easier said than done, and the female hormones can prove to be a big barrier in losing your girlfriend in a simple and easy manner. Most of the times, the conventional methods might not work and you might have to use devious means to dump your girl.

Whatever the reason might be, if you feel that your life is being constrained because of one lousy mistake you made, it is time to get out of it and live a new and better life. Here are some tips to help you lose a girlfriend who is neither compatible nor the type of woman you want to spend your life with. And you don’t have to feel bad about the fact that you are dumping her, who knows, you might be doing her a favor by giving her an opportunity to find a better guy, no offence intended.

Avoid her like the plague: The best way to make sure that your girl knows about your disinterest is to avoid her like the proverbial plague. You should stop making calls to her and returning calls from her and stop any kind of social interaction that you had earlier. You can make up excuses to avoid meeting her and remain incommunicado when she wants to get in touch. You should also start acting like the busiest person in the world. Although these techniques don’t work with all types of girls but it will help to get your message across. 

Show her all your downsides: No man is perfect and a woman knows and accepts that fact very well. But when the same man’s attributes are overshadowed by his bad habits, the girlfriends start to get a little more than annoyed. So, if you have any bad habits which she detests, now would be the time to overplay all of them and at the same time would be even better. Make sure that she is given a full-blown display of all your annoying behaviors and ensure that they get worse as the days progress. If you are really a great guy and have very little to show in the name of bad habits then it is time to invent a few. Make a list of all the things she detests in men and ensure that you have perfected all of them. That should make it easier for her to say goodbye to you.