There is
more to a date than just asking a girl out and getting her to agree. You need
to think about making the date a perfect one for her so that the second one is
easier to get. Impressing a girl on a date is not very difficult; if you put on
a little effort and brush up on some of the “what women want” knowledge. A
little romance and excitement is what is needed to make or break a date. Making
a good impression on the first date is very important if you want to take the
relationship to the next level. A little mixture of charm, courteousness,
physical allure and intelligence can take you all the places with a girl. Read
on to find out the ways to make your date a perfect one which she would remember for
all the right reasons.
Courtesy and
chivalry: With all the talk about males and females being equal; women still
have this inherent need to be treated with old fashioned chivalry and
gallantry. If you come across as a chauvinist on your very first date you can
kiss the second one goodbye because there is very little likelihood of her
wanting to go out on another date with a Boor. If you manage to do little stuff
like holding the door open or pulling her chair out, you will win a few brownie
points.
A two-way
conversation: If you are an intelligent talker but can only speak and not
listen than you might want to brush up on your listening skills. No one, least
of all a girl on her first date, would like to be the only one listening to
some boring accomplishments you might have achieved in your life. Giving her an
opportunity to talk will not only make her feel confident but also let you know
her better.
Don't come on too strong: There is one thing that a girl hates on her first date like no
other; and that is a guy coming on too strong. Even if you two have a scorching
attraction brewing right there across the dining table, it is still prudent to
curb your excitement and utilize it at a later time. By not pawing upon her
like a Neanderthal in heat, you would have managed to win her trust and also
make her feel that you are interested in her for more than one reason.
Be presentable: Your appearance and personality are what will make a first and
last impression; so keeping yourself looking and sounding the best is an
important aspect of making your date a perfect one. Being decently dressed in
the color which suits you best; and keeping body and mouth odor at bay are
small but important things to keep in mind.
The
location: A date is not only about going to a place and doing small talk or eating
food. Choosing a romantic, interesting location for the date is definitely
going to win a lot of points in your favor. If you are able to choose an
interesting spot and also create a romantic environment, you will be crafting
“a date to remember”.
Although ensuring that you have followed all the points above doesn't guarantee your next date (their's something called a "free will" of the female involved), but it definitely ensures that you will be on your way to charm your date and make her feel special!
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